Giving Back: To Those Who Served Our Country

The effects of aging could make some seniors feel they can no longer give back to their community or help family and friends.

But every day, older adults across North America prove that – with a little help – seniors can still make a difference. The Home Instead Senior Care^® network has captured simple and adaptable ideas from seniors and care community professionals to create the “Give-Back” program.

The “Give-Back” program is a series of resources for caregivers and care community activity professionals who are trying to help keep even frail and isolated seniors engaged and provide them opportunities to help others. Some projects can be adopted by an individual; others are ideal for group projects or as a meaningful activity with friends.

The need to be needed does not diminish with age, experts say. Keeping seniors connected and giving back might even help them age with better health, and help reduce feelings of isolation and depression. 

For many seniors, the idea of giving back to the soldiers currently serving in the armed forces is an appealing prospect.

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If you’re helping a senior or group of older adults send a parcel or care package to deployed troops, do your research on the best way to send it, the time it will take your parcel or package to arrive, and the cost and any special requirements of mailing, such as the completion of a customs form.  If sending to a stranger, help protect an older adult’s identity and security by not including the senior’s personal information or address. 

Soldiers’ Angels (www.soldiersangels.org) is an example of an organization that helps facilitate sending letters and care packages to the military. Here are the organization’s guidelines for a soldier adoption: 

• Go to this web page for complete details about a soldier adoption: http://soldiersangels.org/adopting-a-soldier.html.

•  To assist a senior in adopting a soldier, a family member or helper can become a “verified angel.” Before giving access to a soldier’s personal information, such as the soldier's name and address, Soldiers' Angels requires that each verified angel’s identity be verified (and re-verified each month) at a monthly minimum donation (which can be as little as $1). Verified members can participate in any of Soldiers’ Angels programs.

• This “verified angel” is the point of contact for the adopted soldier. Mentors will be available to help the “verified angel” by answering questions and providing guidance.

•  The adoption commitment involves sending at least one letter a week and at least one care package a month throughout the soldier’s deployment.

•       If you are interested in planning this as a group activity in a care community, contact Group Support at groups@soldiersangels.org.

For more resources and volunteer stories, go to SalutetoSeniorService.com. 

Giving Back: To the Community

The effects of aging could make some seniors feel they can no longer give back to their community or help family and friends.

But every day, older adults across North America prove that – with a little help – seniors can still make a difference. The Home Instead Senior Care^® network has captured simple and adaptable ideas from seniors and care community professionals to create the “Give-Back” program.

The “Give-Back” program is a series of resources for caregivers and care community activity professionals who are trying to help keep even frail and isolated seniors engaged and provide them opportunities to help others. Some projects can be adopted by an individual; others are ideal for group projects or as a meaningful activity with friends.

The need to be needed does not diminish with age, experts say. Keeping seniors connected and giving back might even help them age with better health, and help reduce feelings of isolation and depression. 

Most of us know someone who is ill, isolated, depressed or down on their luck. Look for opportunities to encourage a senior to help others. A family caregiver can assist by providing transportation and encouragement.

·         Churches/Faith Community – A senior could be a greeter, either standing or sitting. Or perhaps that older adult could help make a meal, bake cookies or even send greeting cards. Get started: Contact your local church or synagogue to find out how your senior may help.

·         Shelters – Homeless shelters and other emergency shelters rely on the goodness of others to survive with donations of time, talent, food and clothing. Get started: Call local homeless shelters and emergency shelters to discuss their needs and how to help.  

·         Where others need a friend – Encourage your senior to invite a friend to dinner, the mall, a museum or a local attraction, such as a botanical garden. Remember those in care communities likely want to go on outings if they still can.  Get started: Help coordinate a fun activity for a senior and his or her friend.

·         Senior Center – Senior centers can be great places for older adults to volunteer. Many centers need kitchen assistance, help with repairs and cleaning, or greeters who can make others feel at home. Get started: Encourage a senior to get involved by eating meals at the local senior center or taking part in the center’s activities.

·         Where people need help – Needs are all around, from reading to the blind to providing expertise for a community service project. Get started: Contact your local Area Agency on Aging or Chamber of Commerce to find out what’s going on and how a senior could help.

For more resources and volunteer stories, go to SalutetoSeniorService.com.

Giving Back: To Local Senior Care Communities

The effects of aging could make some seniors feel they can no longer give back to their community or help family and friends.

But every day, older adults across North America prove that – with a little help – seniors can still make a difference. The Home Instead Senior Care^® network has captured simple and adaptable ideas from seniors and care community professionals to create the “Give-Back” program.

The “Give-Back” program is a series of resources for caregivers and care community activity professionals who are trying to help keep even frail and isolated seniors engaged and provide them opportunities to help others. Some projects can be adopted by an individual; others are ideal for group projects or as a meaningful activity with friends.

The need to be needed does not diminish with age, experts say. Keeping seniors connected and giving back might even help them age with better health, and help reduce feelings of isolation and depression.

Seniors in care communities still need to feel useful. If a senior is living in an independent or assisted living community, or in skilled care, or if you are a staff member looking for a way to interest a senior in activities, check out these ideas.

Likewise, learn how seniors who are living independently can find fulfillment volunteering to help those living in a care community.

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Encourage a senior living in a care community to give back by doing things they did at home. Work with care community staff to request they adapt activities that fit an older adult’s interests and abilities, such as having the senior:

• Deliver mail or newspapers
• Help bake cookies or cupcakes for a birthday (Some care communities have resident kitchens or use a transportable convection oven.)
• Arrange flowers
• Help decorate for holidays and special dinners
• Establish a community garden, walking club or recycling program for their neighbors
• Work in a candy store or gift shop
• Serve on the resident’s council (Many care communities have these councils to plan activities and help serve as a voice for care community residents.)
• Call bingo
• Help with programs (Read poems or tell stories for Memorial Day, Thanksgiving or Fourth of July, play the piano, sing, and help make and distribute programs for the event.)
• Introduce new members to the care community
• Provide transportation for another senior who can still get out to volunteer.

Remember to encourage a senior living independently to visit and give back to those seniors who are in skilled care by helping them write cards and letters, play bingo or board games, scrapbook and craft, or by hosting a coffee or social hour.

For more resources and volunteer stories, go to SalutetoSeniorService.com.

Giving Back: To Children

The effects of aging could make some seniors feel they can no longer give back to their community or help family and friends.

But every day, older adults across North America prove that – with a little help – seniors can still make a difference. The Home Instead Senior Care^® network has captured simple and adaptable ideas from seniors and care community professionals to create the “Give-Back” program.

The “Give-Back” program is a series of resources for caregivers and care community activity professionals who are trying to help keep even frail and isolated seniors engaged and provide them opportunities to help others. Some projects can be adopted by an individual; others are ideal for group projects or as a meaningful activity with friends.

The need to be needed does not diminish with age, experts say. Keeping seniors connected and giving back might even help them age with better health, and help reduce feelings of isolation and depression.

Seniors and children typically find it easy to bond. Even older adults in care communities still can connect with youth, often with the help of a caregiver, in the following ways.

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Contact a local school district or community center to learn how your senior or group of older adults might give back. Keep in mind that school districts often have policies that may impact student travel or have in place certain security measures – such as conducting background checks – to protect their school’s children.

• Pen Pals – Older adults can serve as pen pals to children. Caregivers may need to help if a senior no longer can write. At the end of a school year, seniors and their pen pals can arrange a get-together to meet. It’s a great idea for a care community group activity as well.

• Mentors – Some schools and community centers need mentors. A participating school matches youth with senior mentors in a care community to provide direction on anything from history lessons to tips on making positive life changes. Request that a representative from the school or community center accompany the youth.

• Advisors – Talking with seniors might be better than reading a history book. Find out from the local school if teachers are planning units on the Great Depression, the wars of the last 50 years or what life was like in the past for the seniors living today. Even seniors who can’t meet with students could write about their experiences with a caregiver’s assistance.

• Foster Grandparents – Foster Grandparents, a Senior Corps program, provides seniors the opportunity to fill many of the roles mentioned above. Go to SeniorCorps.org (http://www.nationalservice.gov/programs/senior-corps/foster-grandparents) to learn more and to find a location.

For more resources and volunteer stories, go to SalutetoSeniorService.com. 

Giving Back: A Talent

The effects of aging could make some seniors feel they can no longer give back to their community or help family and friends.

But every day, older adults across North America prove that – with a little help – seniors can still make a difference. The Home Instead Senior Care^® network has captured simple and adaptable ideas from seniors and care community professionals to create the “Give-Back” program.

The “Give-Back” program offers resources for caregivers and care community activity professionals who are trying to help keep even frail and isolated seniors engaged and provide them opportunities to help others. Some projects can be adopted by an individual; others are ideal for group projects or as a meaningful activity with friends.

The need to be needed does not diminish with age, experts say. Keeping seniors connected and giving back might even help them age with better health, and help reduce feelings of isolation and depression. 

Older adults have spent a lifetime honing talents and hobbies. Learn the many ways they still can utilize those skills, with a little assistance.

Below are ways one can use his/her talent(s) to give back to others.

Knitting, crocheting and sewing – Some seniors, including those with dementia, can still knit and sew. Get started: Contact a church or hospital guild to learn of service projects that a senior could help with such as making prayer shawls or “Linus” blankets, or booties, blankets or hats for newborns.

Woodworking and Stained Glass – Whether they are skilled artisans or just hobbyists, many seniors enjoy working with natural materials. Get started: Encourage seniors to continue their hobbies, looking for ways they could give their creations to others who would appreciate their gifts.

Writing – Some older adults have the gift of writing. Get started: Look for projects where a senior could still use this skill, such as helping with a care community or church newsletter.

Entertaining – Many seniors enjoy playing music or performing for their contemporaries at care communities and hospitals. Get started: Call a hospital or care home to learn how a senior could share his or her talents.

Crafting and Scrapbooking – Many older adults like to craft and scrapbook. Get started: Encourage and help, if needed, a senior to create an ornament, scrapbook or other memento to give back a treasured keepsake to a family member or friend.

Baking and Cooking – Seniors who have always loved to cook or bake will value help doing what they still enjoy. Get started: Whether it’s Grandma’s dinner rolls or Aunt Beth’s famous pecan pie, help a senior bake these family goodies that you can give away, along with the recipe – if it’s not a secret!

For more resources and volunteer stories, go to SalutetoSeniorService.com.

Who Wants to Talk About End-of-Life? Not Many, Study Finds

Despite a continuing nationwide dialogue, many Americans still tend to avoid addressing their own end-of-life (EOL) issues, including the completion of advance directives.

In a study published in the American Journal of Preventive Medicine, a group of investigators examined the factors associated with advance directive completion.

Although various national polls and selected state surveys provide some insight into American attitudes about advanced directives, there is a lack of population-based data about advance directive completion among adults.

For this study, investigators analyzed data from the 2009 and 2010 Porter Novelli HealthStyles national surveys, which included EOL and advance directive-specific questions. The team looked at responses from 7,946 participants in the HealthStyles survey and found that only 26.3 percent had completed an advance directive.

Investigators found that the most frequently reported reason for not having one was lack of awareness.

“The study provides information from a large sample of adults on their attitudes and behaviors regarding advance directives,” says Lynda A. Anderson, Ph.D. and director of the Healthy Aging Program, National Center for Chronic Disease Prevention and Health Promotion, Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.

 

While several investigations have shown that health care costs are greatest during the final years of life, researchers found that the use of advance directives was associated with lower levels of Medicare spending and a lower likelihood of in-hospital deaths.

 

Try to convince your family that it’s important to you that your wishes be carried out. It might help to consult an attorney in advance to have an idea what you would like to see happen as you age before you meet with family. Remember to think about care options as well. Older adults are staying at home longer than ever with the wealth of resources now available.

Contact your local Home Instead Senior Care^® office today to discover the many options available to you to remain at home as you age.

 

For additional details about this study, visit http://www.eurekalert.org/pub_releases/2013-12/ehs-moa120413.php?asid=b0517ae9.

 

 

Decreased Smoking Likely Driving Down Lung Cancer Deaths

The Annual Report to the Nation on the Status of Cancer showed death rates for lung cancer, which accounts for more than one in four cancer deaths, dropping at a faster pace than in previous years.

The recent larger drop in lung cancer deaths is likely the result of decreased cigarette smoking prevalence over many years, and is now being reflected in mortality trends. The lung cancer death rate decline, as well as declines in colorectal, breast and prostate cancer death rates, has also helped drive decreases in death rates for all cancers types combined, a trend that began about 20 years ago.

The decreased death rates for these four cancers accounted for more than two-thirds of the overall reduction in cancer death rates in the period 2001-2010.

“Similar to death rates, the overall decrease in cancer incidence rates among men was driven in part by declines in lung cancer, mainly reflecting the success of tobacco control interventions,” said John R. Seffrin, Ph.D., chief executive officer of the American Cancer Society.

“Cancer patients with underlying health conditions, such as diabetes, have special challenges,” said CDC Director Tom Frieden, M.D. “It’s critical for health care providers to have the full picture of their patients’ health so they can provide the best treatment possible for the patient overall, and for their cancer.”

 

To learn more about this report, visit http://www.cancer.gov/newscenter/newsfromnci/2013/ReportNationDec2013Release.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Volunteering Could Reduce Hypertension Risk

As it turns out, volunteering could provide more than personal satisfaction and perks to the community. The benefits of volunteering are much more personal, according to research from Carnegie Mellon University (“CMU”). The results show that the older adults studied who volunteered at least 200 hours per year decreased their risk of hypertension, or high blood pressure, by 40%.

The study, published by the American Psychological Association’s Psychology and Aging® journal, suggests that volunteer work may be an effective way to reduce dependency on medications. Hypertension affects an estimated 65 million Americans and is a major contributor to cardiovascular disease, the leading cause of death in the U.S. Six million Canadian adults, or one in five, have hypertension.

For the study, Rodlescia S. Sneed, a Ph.D. candidate in psychology in CMU’s Dietrich College of Humanities and Social Sciences and lead author of the study, and Carnegie Mellon’s Sheldon Cohen, studied 1,164 adults between ages 51 and 91 from across the U.S. The participants were interviewed twice, in 2006 and 2010, and all had normal blood pressure levels at the first interview. Volunteerism, various social and psychological factors, and blood pressure were measured each time.

The results showed that those who reported volunteering at least 200 hours per year during the initial interview were 40% less likely to develop hypertension than those who did not volunteer when evaluated four years later. The amount of time spent volunteering – and not the specific type of volunteer activity – appeared to be the primary factor that led to increased protection from hypertension.

“Participating in volunteer activities may provide older adults with social connections that they might not have otherwise,” Sneed said. “There is strong evidence that having good social connections promotes healthy aging and reduces risk for a number of negative health outcomes.”

Dementia Caregivers Shouldn’t ‘Go it Alone’

An estimated 5.4 million people in the United States have Alzheimer's disease and other types of dementia, and 70 percent are cared for in the community by family members and friends, according to the Alzheimer’s Association. Many have mild to moderate dementia.

Most people with dementia who live at home have multiple unmet health and welfare needs, any number of which could jeopardize their ability to remain home for as long as they desire, new Johns Hopkins research suggests. The study also indicates that identifying and treating depression in people with dementia and their caregivers may enable them to address their other unmet needs.

 

“Currently, we can’t cure their dementia, but we know there are things that, if done systematically, can keep people with dementia at home longer,” says study leader Betty S. Black, Ph.D., an associate professor of psychiatry and behavioral sciences at the Johns Hopkins University School of Medicine.

 

Black and her colleagues performed in-home assessments and surveys of 254 people with dementia living at home in Baltimore and also interviewed 246 of their informal, non-professional caregivers. They found that 99 percent of people with dementia and 97 percent of their caregivers had one or more unmet needs.

 

Unmet needs fell into many categories including safety, health, meaningful activities, legal issues and estate planning, assistance with activities of daily living and medication management, Black says.

 

Here are two important resources designed to help caregivers like you: The book “Confidence to Care” is for family caregivers providing care for Alzheimer’s disease or other dementias at home. It’s easy to read and offers practical advice from experts and family caregivers such as you.

 

The book provides insights into understanding, managing and preventing actions associated with Alzheimer’s disease and dementia. What’s more, a free mobile phone app based on content from the book provides more than 500 searchable tips and solutions for family caregivers. For more information about these tools, go to HelpforAlzheimersFamilies.com.

Don’t “go it alone.” Contact your local Home Instead Senior Care^® office to learn how a CAREGiver^SM could provide you and your family with support.

For more about the study, visit http://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/news/media/releases/living_at_home_with_dementia.

 

 

Stressed? Research Links Anxiety to Stroke Risk

The greater the anxiety level, the higher the risk of having a stroke, according to new research published in the American Heart Association journal Stroke. And heart disease patients who suffer anxiety have twice the risk of dying. What’s worse, heart patients with both anxiety and depression have triple the risk of dying, researchers said, in the Journal of the American Heart Association published earlier this year.

 

The stroke study is reported to be the first in which researchers linked anxiety and stroke independent of other factors such as depression. Anxiety disorders are one of the most prevalent mental health problems. Symptoms include feeling unusually worried, stressed, nervous or tense.

The study found that people in the highest third of anxiety symptoms had a 33 percent higher stroke risk than those with the lowest levels.

“Everyone has some anxiety now and then. But when it’s elevated and/or chronic, it may have an effect on your health years down the road,” said Maya Lambiase, Ph.D., study author and cardiovascular behavioral medicine researcher in the Department of Psychiatry at the University of Pittsburgh School of Medicine, in Pittsburgh, Penn.

Ask your mother’s doctor to put together a plan for her that could encompass her health and well-being. She might also benefit from a little extra companionship, particularly during the times when you are unable to be with her. Why not suggest she check out a senior center? Most communities have these centers that provide both mealtime activities and companionship. Or consider a non-medical caregiving companion, such as one from Home Instead Senior Care^®.

 

For more information about the study, visit http://newsroom.heart.org/news/anxiety-depression-identify-heart-disease-patients-at-increased-risk-of-dying

The Search is on for Northeast Pennsylvania’s Outstanding Senior Volunteer

Every day, Northeast Pennsylvania senior volunteers generously give their time and service to help others. Now here’s your chance to give back by nominating a deserving older adult in your community for his or her outstanding service through the Salute to Senior Service^® program. 

Sponsored by Home Instead, Inc., the franchisor of the Home Instead Senior Care^® network, Salute to Senior Service recognizes the invaluable contributions of adults age 65 and older who give at least 15 hours a month of volunteer service to their favorite causes.

“Seniors have so much to give and make a positive impact on our communities daily,” said Robert Vielee, owner of the Home Instead Senior Care office serving Lackawanna , Monroe, Pike, Wayne and Wyoming counties. “Senior volunteerism not only benefits others, but also helps seniors stay active and socially engaged in their communities – important elements of healthy aging.”

Members of the community are asked to nominate and vote for these everyday heroes between Jan. 15 and March 1, 2014, at SalutetoSeniorService.com. State winners will be determined by popular vote. A panel of senior care experts will then select a national Salute to Senior Service winner from among the state honorees.

Home Instead, Inc. will donate $500 to each of the state winners’ designated and approved nonprofit organizations, and their personal stories will be shared online on the Salute to Senior Service Wall of Fame. In addition, $5,000 will be donated to the national winner’s designated and approved nonprofit charity.

To complete and submit an online nomination form for a senior age 65 or older who volunteers at least 15 hours a month, and to view the contest’s official rules, visit SalutetoSeniorService.com. Completed nomination forms can alternatively be mailed to Salute to Senior Service, P.O. Box 285, Bellevue, NE 68005.

For more information about Salute to Senior Service or the Home Instead Senior Care network’s services, call your local Home Instead Senior Care at 570-586-3135 or 570-687-4755.

Enrich Seniors by Helping Them Give Back

By Lisa Ost-Beikmann, Education Outreach Trustee for the National Association of Activity Professionals (NAAP) and Donna Calvo, also an NAAP member and Recreational Coordinator at Selkirk Place, a long term residential care community in Victoria, British Columbia. 

CaregiverStress.com® newsletter talked with these two North American activity professionals about the challenges seniors can face in staying active and the importance of volunteerism and giving back. To learn more about “give-back” activity resource sheets, which provide seniors, caregivers and care community professionals ideas to keep older adults giving back, go to SalutetoSeniorService.com.

Q. Do you think it’s still important for seniors to give
back to society or their broader community and,
if so, why?

A. Lisa Ost-Beikmann: Absolutely! You know the
saying, “Everybody needs to be needed.” They
need to feel they have a lot to give back. When I
worked in a care community, I allowed both men
and women to peel potatoes. Some organized
silverware, set tables and folded laundry. I kept
them as involved as I could doing what they were
used to doing at home so they felt they were still
part of a home setting. People will deteriorate
physically, mentally and emotionally if they don’t
feel there’s a need for them.

Q. What challenges do you think seniors in care
communities can face in staying active?

A. Donna Calvo: Communities don’t always know
how to engage seniors living in care communities
or those who are isolated and frail at home, and
get them out doing what they’ve always enjoyed.
It’s important to realize that these older adults have
a wealth of experience to share. They may need
help, but they can still be at functions greeting, for
instance, even if they need to sit. It’s important
to their self-esteem and self-respect, and helps
prevent isolation, which can lead to depression.

Q. Do you think more seniors would engage in
volunteerism if they had help?

A. Lisa Ost-Beikmann: Yes. We need to encourage
seniors and make them feel confident about their
ability to give back. Simply providing transportation
to that older loved one or helping him or her write
letters could mean so much.

Q. What benefits might seniors realize with additional
assistance?

A. Donna Calvo: There are many. First, we’re going
to raise self-esteem, improve social interaction
and possibly reduce doctor visits. We might even
discover that seniors are feeling more fulfilled with
their lives.

Use It or Lose It

When it comes to how the mind ages, research is increasingly giving new meaning to the popular phrase “use it or lose it”. Mind games keep many aging minds young and vital.  So what are today’s seniors doing to keep mentally fit?  Many have said goodbye to traditional games such as bingo. They’re embracing new technology and gravitating to video games and group activities such as Scrabble^® and bridge tournaments. According to the latest research, it all helps.

• A 2013 study from Brigham and Women’s Hospital Department of Neurology provides specific scientific evidence supporting the concept that prolonged and intensive stimulation by an enriched environment, especially regular exposure to new activities, may have beneficial effects in delaying one of the key negative factors in Alzheimer's disease.¹

^·          2012 research reported in JAMA Neurology found that people who engage in mentally stimulating activities throughout life – especially in early and mid-life – have less buildup of beta-amyloid protein in their brains in older age. (Beta-amyloid is the main component of the sticky brain-clogging plaques that are a hallmark of Alzheimer’s disease.)²

One deterrent for many seniors who would like to stay mentally active is lack of companionship – particularly for those older adults who live alone. Sometimes seniors just need a little encouragement from family and friends to help them pursue interests that can keep their minds stimulated.

From a scientific standpoint, multiple factors apparently contribute to a sluggish senior mind, said Ronald Petersen M.D. Ph.D., director of the Mayo Clinic Alzheimer’s Disease Research Center. In his words, “There is often a genetic component, but the environment plays a role as well. The cumulative impacts of medical issues such as vascular changes like hardening of the arteries also contribute to dementia.” He also pointed out that, “The connections between the nerve cells probably also don’t work as well.”

On the other hand, Petersen observes, the wisdom and acquired experience seniors bring to the table is often under-valued in society. That’s why exercising the mind as well as the body is such an important goal for older adults.

 “Whether it’s a computer game, crossword or Sudoku puzzles, or reading and analyzing a newspaper or magazine, first and foremost seniors should like what they’re doing,” Petersen said. “If the senior does not enjoy the activity, then it is not as likely to be beneficial.”

1. The Science Behind an Active Mind and Alzheimer’s Disease; Brigham and Women’s Hospital Department of Neurology; http://www.brighamandwomens.org/about_bwh/publicaffairs/news/publications/DisplayCRN.aspx?articleid=2143

2. Association of Lifetime Cognitive Engagement and Low β-Amyloid Deposition; May 2012; http://archneur.jamanetwork.com/article.aspx?articleid=1149704; JAMA Neurology

Tips for Mind-Stimulating Fun

Following, from Home Instead Senior Care^®, are ways to help engage a senior loved one in mind-stimulating activities:

Video action. Interactive video games have become popular for family members of all ages. Some games, such as Nintendo’s Brain Age, and the Wii home video game system, are particularly good for stimulating seniors’ minds.

Computer savvy not needed. Even seniors who are intimidated by the computer still can play online and other computer games. Why not try to help them get started playing Solitaire or joining an online bridge game?

Organize game night. Board or card games offer a great avenue for mind stimulation.  Why not encourage a senior loved one to get a few friends together to join in the fun?

The magic of music. Many seniors were avid musicians in earlier years and some may still have pianos or instruments in their homes. Ask them to play you a tune or challenge them to learn an instrument.

Tournament fun. Bridge and Scrabble tournaments for seniors are springing up around the country. Check with your local senior center or Home Instead Senior Care office to learn of any activities in your area. Or encourage your older adult to join a local bridge group.

Think big. Crossword, large-piece jigsaw and Sudoku puzzles are great pastimes for seniors who need a mind-stimulating activity when they are alone.

Out and about. Most communities have concerts, lectures and other pursuits that can interest seniors and their families. If your loved one is able to get out, consider those.

In the news. Many seniors maintain their interest in politics and current events. For their next birthday, why not renew a subscription to a newspaper or popular news magazine. Or organize a news discussion group.

Just the two of you. When it’s just you and your senior loved one, remember there are more things you can do than watch television. Games like Monopoly Express, Scrabble Express and Sorry Express don’t take long to play.

Look-and-See Signs a Senior Needs Help

What today’s seniors want most is to age in place. But what they’re least likely to ask for is the kind of help that will keep them comfortable and safe at home. That’s why it’s often up to the adult children of aging parents to look for the signs that their older loved one needs help at home. Neglecting those signs will likely lead seniors to the kind of dependence that most would like to avoid.

“Seniors often don’t recognize when they require help,” said Robert Vielee, owner of the Home Instead Senior Care^® office serving Northeast Pennsylvania and the Greater Poconos.  “That’s why adult children should identify where their loved ones need assistance.

Home Instead Senior Care has made this process easier by providing a list of simple, look-and-see signs that adult children can use to identify the types of services their senior might need. Providing assistance with a few basic tasks – such as meal preparation, light housekeeping, companionship and medication reminders – often means the difference between whether they stay at home or go to a care community. And that kind of independence is very important to seniors’ overall happiness.”

Seniors’ expectations for remaining at home are high. Industry studies typically show that as many as 90 percent of seniors want to age in place in their own homes. The Home Instead Senior Care network, the largest provider of at-home care and companionship for aging adults in the U.S., sends CAREGivers^SM to seniors to help keep them independent and at home for as long as possible.

“Most people, in general, want to live at home or independently in a retirement community,” said Mary E. Hujer MSN APRN, a board-certified geriatric clinical nurse specialist/instructor at Southwest General Hospital’s Geriatric Services Center in Cleveland, Ohio. “Who wants to lose their independence? The best approach to staying self-sufficient is to plan ahead and accept help when necessary,” she noted.

“By helping adult children identify the types of resources that a senior might need to remain independent at home, we hope that families can avoid some of the stress that goes with caring for an aging loved one,” Vielee said. 

For more information about Home Instead Senior Care, contact 570-586-3135 or visit the company’s website at HomeInstead.com/nepa.

Look-and-See Signs of Aging

1. Look in refrigerator, freezer and drawers.  Has food spoiled because Mom can’t get to the grocery store? Does she have difficulty cleaning tight, cluttered places?

2. Look over the grocery list. Has your loved one’s declining health prompted her to purchase more convenience and junk foods, and neglect proper nutrition?  Is she losing weight?

3. Look on top of furniture and countertops. Are dust and dirt signs that household tasks are becoming more difficult for your parents?

4. Look up at fans and ceilings. Has the inability to lift her arms and climb stepstools prevented your loved one from cleaning soot and grime from high places? Caution your senior not to climb.

5. Look down at floors and stairways. Have shaky hands spilled drinks and food, soiling vinyl, wood, carpets and walkways? Are frayed carpets, throw rugs, objects and furniture creating tripping hazards? Does Dad’s bad knee put him at greater risk on cracked sidewalks and with broken stair rails? 

6. Look under beds and sofas. Is your senior having difficulty organizing old newspapers, books and magazines, which are creating a fire hazard?

7. Look through the mail. Is Mom’s dementia causing her to forget to pay bills and answer correspondence?

8. Look below bathroom and kitchen sinks. Is poor eyesight making it difficult for your elderly relative to read medication labels and to properly store cleaning materials? Is Dad forgetting to refill medications and to take them on schedule?  Check the refill date against the number of pills in the bottle to help determine if he is taking medication regularly. Or call the pharmacy.

9. Look at your senior’s appearance. Is clothing dirty and unkempt, and is your loved one neglecting personal hygiene? 

10. Look to your parents’ neighbors and other close friends to learn about their daily routine. Are your seniors at home more, watching television and avoiding stimulating conversation and companionship?

Source:  Home Instead Senior Care^®, 2013